It Takes A Village

I’ve been hearing those words since I became a mother. I never truly understood what they meant or what it really feels like to have that village until now. And what a village I have.

I can’t say that I’ve acquired a lot of friends over my lifetime. I’ve always been pretty shy and socializing is not my strong suit. I’ve made a few very good friends that have stuck with me over the years but it wasn’t until my family moved to Clifton Park that my circle of friends really seemed to grow. It’s not huge by any stretch but they’re some of the best people I’ve ever met. 

When I add these wonderful friends to my wonderful family, I’ve got more people than I ever realized in my corner. Then, on top of that, add the world’s best husband? How did I get so lucky?!

The fight for my life really has only just started but I’m already surrounded by one hell of a community. Some of you are on the front lines, loving on and taking care of my kiddos during the time I cannot. Others are on the sidelines praying and supporting me, reading this and sending me so much love.  Still others are in the background providing gift baskets and meals and anything else you think of that makes this battle even just a little easier. 

The amount of generosity, support, and love you’ve all shown is overwhelming in the very best way. I’m able to stay positive because I know y’all are cheering me on. It’s going to be a long tough road this year but it’s lined with some of the best cheerleaders a girl could ask for.

Both Caleb and I are terrible at asking for help and just as bad at accepting it. But so many of you have asked for ways to help which is why we finally gave in and let my friend set up a GoFundMe. The link is under “Ways To Help.” We still feel weird about it but I promise to work on getting better at accepting all the help our village has so generously offered up. 

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